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If you ever worry that on your deathbed you may regret what you did with your life… if you ever fear being a failure… if you ever despair of finding happiness. This letter is for you. "If You Had One Year To Live Would You Live It More Significantly And Meaningfully Than You Are Right Now?"
Ssh. Listen. Can you hear it? Tick. Tock. From the clock. A second passes. Then a minute. Now it's an hour. Another day passes. Another day just like a hundred that have passed before. And another day of aggravation… irritation... and frustration. Another day that ends with you no closer to reaching your dreams. Another day where worry stops you from ‘seizing the day’. Another day of fear and anxiety stifling your potential. Another day where you are too tired... too stressed... too angry... or too bitter to start or maintain the relationship you really want. Another day where the pressure and demands on you seem backbreaking. Another day where you feel as if life is sucking everything from you and giving little back. Another day where you become more and more certain that… Life just isn’t fair. Deep down in your gut you know that life shouldn't be like this... yet you can't see how it can be any other way. Now I don’t know you or anything about your circumstances. You may not experience all of these symptoms, but I’ll bet you feel some of them, some of the time. So too do 99% of the population. Because these symptoms are a natural side effect of the way we live. But they don't have to be inevitable. Spare a few moments to read this information and I’ll share with you the secret that will help you from getting sucked into this whirlpool of chaos. |
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It's Not You... It's Not Them... The Problem Is With The System - Yet It's You That's Paying The Price It might seem that it’s a particular individual - or situation - such as your Boss… your Spouse or Partner… your parents or children that's causing the problems in your life. But the truth is that this feeling of overwhelming pressure is happening in every home in every country to everyone - just at differing degrees. And it's sucking all the fun from your life. It's not going to calm down when you get promoted. It's not going to calm down when you or your Partner is less stressed. It's not going to pass. Because then it will be something new. And something else after that. We all deal with it – or try to - in our own way. Some lash out. Some block it out of their mind. Others sink into a spiral of despair and depression and give up. Many try to numb the pain with drink, drugs, work, sex, stimulants and distractions. Yet none of these work.
It's Insane To Suffer... When You Can So Easily Master Life... If You Will Only Take The Time To Understand The Dynamics That Make The Difference Between Happiness And Misery. You can avoid falling into these potential minefields that the rest of the world will just accept as inevitable or ‘bad luck’. And just so you know, You don't need to sign up to a certain religion - mainstream or cult. Neither do you need to run around with bells on your ankles, recite incantations, cast spells or any other hocus pocus. In a moment I'll share the key with you. Let's start by explaining what the problem is. It's this… Every invention or advance since we started domesticating animals 14,000 years ago has sped up the pace of life. And ever since, century on century, decade on decade. Year on year. Life has never stopped accelerating. Today it seems like life flies by faster with every minute that passes. As you sleep there are advances and developments that are going to effect the way you live your life. As you read this advertisers are plotting how to get your precious attention – and money. And the people in your life are making changes in their lives that will impact on you. So when you wake tomorrow, you have to play catch up. And each day in your life becomes more and more complex. You could try to earn more money, work harder, sleep less and be more effective to keep up with these developments. This is what people across the world are doing now in an attempt to get ahead in the ‘rat-race’. In Japan there’s even the beginnings of a trend… it's called Karoshi (death by overwork). Nobuo Miuro from Tokyo, is an example. He tried to keep up by working harder. And dropped down dead in the middle of his 17-hour work shift. The solution isn’t working harder. Nor is it even working smarter. That just puts you in a more competitive race. As the quote says... 'even if you win the rat race... you're still a rat'. Here's the real problem. The world – and most of the people in it - doesn’t care about your dreams. It takes no notice of your hopes and fears. It couldn’t care less about nurturing your potential. All it cares about is what benefits itself. (You can't blame it. Everyone and everything can only look from it's own perspective). And so it wants you to do it’s bidding. It wants to take all it can from you… for as long as it can. To make itself stronger and more powerful. And then it will move on. To some other poor sucker. You see every leader of a tribe or group... sees itself like the Queen Bee. It wants all the worker Bees to graft away to make itself more powerful. Every politician... every employer... and every religious leader gets their position, power and authority from the group. And so their concern is for the good of the group. Not you as an individual. They'll act for the greatest good for the greatest number. They don't care about you. They'll have you grafting away for the good of the group (and their position). And if you dare to question them, they'll tell you that you're being selfish. Or they'll call you bad. Or they'll point out some other poor individual who's in an even worse position than you.
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When There's Enough Money In The World For Every Man, Woman And Child Alive To Be A Millionaire... Why Are So Many Still Starving To Death? Did you know that there is enough money in the world for every single person in the whole world to be a millionaire? Yet still people are starving and struggling. So if keeping your head down, working hard and leaving decisions to our leaders - elected and unelected - was going to solve all our problems they'd have been solved. But that's not going to work. And do you know what? You might have enough food. You might have a comfortable home and life. But I'll bet that inside you're starving. Inside you're craving more excitement... more passion... more success... more fulfilment... more joy... more peace of mind... more love... more respect... more confidence... more freedom... and more happiness. And if you don't take your life by the scruff of the neck right now... you'll starve emotionally for the rest of your life. While you allow others to set out the rules for your life... while you allow others to dictate what you do and don't do in your life... you will never get close to experiencing life... the way that you really crave to feel it. You'll never experience goose bumps... just from the sheer, ecstatic, exhilaration of being truly, fully alive. And that's what I am here for. I'm your personal advocate. I'm not here to make your employer richer. I'm not here to make your country more powerful. I'm not here to push a certain religious dogma. I'm not here to advocate anything... except that you stop allowing the world to push you around. This is your wake up call. It's time for you and I to work together to get your life by the scruff of the neck and start forming it the way you want it to be. Right now. No more ifs, ands, buts and maybe's. Nothing else is going to change until you decide to take complete control of your life. And if you go through life without understanding these principles you'll be missing out. It's like pedalling a bike with the brakes on. I don't need to tell you... you know how draining the endless conflicts, niggles and frustrations are. You see everyone else in your life has some level of emotional involvement with you. And so they may honestly want the best for you... but it's impossible for them not to be blinded by their own hopes and dreams. I love my kids dearly and genuinely want the best for them. But already I have ideas about what I think is best for them. So even without intentionally wanting to... as they grow up, I'll be influencing them to do the things that I think will be best for them. And I can't know what is really for their best. In the same way the people in your life are blinded by what they think is for your best interests. And some just blatantly want their own best interests. Once you understand the principles and insights I have to share with you you'll know how to be in complete control of your life. And yet strange as it may seem you'll have more to share with others. You see once you are in a balanced, sound and peaceful state... you'll have so much more to give others.
Learning The Secrets To Living A Happy And Meaningful Life Is Like Having The Keys To The Universe's Toy Cupboard And now you could learn the dynamics that determine whether your life will result in happiness and meaning or misery and boredom. These dynamics are all explained in The 32 Building Blocks of Happiness Package. Click here to order the 32 Building Blocks To Happiness Now You might only be missing 1 or 2 of these blocks, but that is enough to stop you from getting all the happiness you should be enjoying. Put them all together and your life and relationships run smoothly. You feel relaxed, calm, in control and passionate about your life. Once you understand and use these building blocks you’ll walk through life with a inner peace of mind, security and confidence that will lead you to become happier, more effective and experience more meaning in your life. What I’m talking about is living your life without fear… without doubt… without worries… without guilt… without having to change who you are to fit in with someone else’s idea of who you should be. I’m talking about the freedom to be who you want to be. To do what you want to do. To have all that you want to have. The freedom to be loved as you are… and for what you are. I’m talking about waking up in the morning and looking forward to what you have to do. Looking forward to interacting with the people you will meet. Looking forward and believing that the day will go well.
Right now this may seem hard to believe. But once you understand the underlying dynamics that determine whether you will live with passion and purpose or futility and insecurity... it will be fully under your control. Unless, you understand the critical concepts in The 32 Building Blocks of Happiness...
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Click here to order the 32 Building Blocks To Happiness Now I could go on and on. But let me tell you this. However powerful these benefits may seem to be… they pale in comparison with this one. It doesn't matter whether you believe in an afterlife or not. Because ultimately everything - now and if there is a later - depends on how you live your life now. All that you are... everything you ever do... everything anyone thinks about you... everything about you... depends on the decisions and actions you take in the seventy, eighty or ninety years of your life. Here and now.
Every Minute You're Either Moving Towards A Better Quality Of Life Or Slipping Into Frustration And Despair. Which Are You Doing? If you go through life without uncovering the flawed concepts that cause misery and failure... you're sabotaging the quality of your life. And you are robbing those around you of the best they could get from you. If you read studies or talk to people in the last years of their life, you'll find out that in the twilight years what people regret most are the missed opportunities. The settling for the mundane rather than going for their dreams. When each of us faces our final hours, pondering our life… we won’t care less what other people thought of us. Nor will we care about how much money or toys we amassed. But we’ll be devastated if we lived a substandard life out of fear, ignorance and laziness. Unfortunately most people never go beyond their fears, anxiety and ignorance. As you read this, the world is going about its business. Scurrying around like ants. Always busy. But never seeming to get as far as they should. To them a book is a book. A course is a course. And an idea is an idea. To them the difference between one fundamental concept and another seems slight. Almost imperceptible. Just like to the untrained eye the difference between a 7th Dan black belt Martial Artist and an 8th Dan Master seems slight. But amongst the masses though there walk a few. A few with vision, who can see beyond the humdrum to catch the slight difference that can make all the difference in a persons life. They become trained to notice the finer details in life... And life showers rewards on them. They live life their way. Their relationships are loving and close. They know with a certainty that goes bone deep that they and what they are doing matters. Of course the same stuff still happens to them as to you and I, but they don't let it affect their enjoyment of life. They have learned to transcend stress, worry and bitterness. One who has mastered the art of living understands that the more precise and tightly honed his understanding of certain life principles… the more life rewards him. And you too could become one who gains meaning and joy from life... but only if you learn these critical insights. Click here to order the 32 Building Blocks To Happiness Now Why Does It Take An Insensitive Oaf To Stumble Across Secrets To Happiness And Meaning That Everyone Else Seems To Overlook? I want to make it crystal clear how you'll benefit from listening to me. You won't hear what you want to hear from me. You'll hear what will ultimately make your life more fulfilling and enjoyable. You won't get hyped up with motivating words that make you feel good for a while, but ultimately get you nowhere. You won't learn how to get ahead in the rat race. You will learn a new way to look at the world. A way to transcend the bitterness, futility and misery conventional viewpoints lead to. A way to live your life in harmony with everyone and yet still getting all that you want. You might be asking who am I to be making such bold statements.
My name is Rob McPhillips and I’m a self confessed Insensitive Oaf. I can’t help it, I was born that way. And my Mum's been sitting with her head in her hands ever since. But why is it that my personality flaw could help you to be happier and live your life with more passion and excitement than ever before? Well to explain let me start from the beginning so it makes more sense. I realised from quite a young age that what other people thought never really bothered me. But I noticed that it bothered other people. A lot. So I watched and observed. And I saw all the ridiculous ways that people would try to contort themselves so they might please other people. I saw how they beat themselves up with guilt, when they got it wrong. I saw how they pussy-footed around people, too frightened to say what they meant… and ended up making things worse. And I saw how hurt they got when they felt offended. Now while I’m tougher skinned and less bothered by what other people think, I still don’t want to go through life annoying everyone. What good would that do? So I thought I’d better learn to understand how and why they get offended so I can avoid making those mistakes. So I started studying to learn the code people seemed to be trying to live up to. It fascinated me that once people got caught up in their emotions… needing other people’s approval… needing to be part of the group… needing security and all the other stuff people crave… they completely lost all control over their life. And then they blamed everyone and everything else. Here’s a vivid example, that has always stuck in my mind, that happened when I was twelve. I’d become friends with another kid at school. And for some reason, he happened to be considered ‘cool’. So he was the leader of a group. I used to spend some time hanging out with them. One day I met up with them at a break and he was off school. (There was a long period where he didn’t turn up to school). Three or four of them turned to me – at the same time - and said... ‘So what are we going to do’. It was like a bolt from the blue. I’d never realised just how much people needed direction. I observed more and watched the other kids at school. I saw that in exchange for being part of the group they had to give up part of what made them… Well, them. And in the decades since I’ve studied intently to uncover why people do what they do. As I talked to them I got to walk around in structures of their minds. I saw how the most absurd beliefs made sense... when they were built upon a flawed foundation. For example, suicide terrorists are not insane, yet it's hard to understand how they can believe such an act is worthy of their life. But when you can dissect the structure of their mind... you can see how it makes perfect sense to them. And once you learn the structure of your mind... you'll see how to make changes that you could never make before.
In other words I've studied life from many different perspectives. From evolutionary... chemical... physical... societal... and energetic. So I've seen literally thousands of examples of different belief structures and thought patterns and how they have worked out. Of course lots of people study diverse areas. But I had an advantage that almost no-one else had. I was too insensitive to ever get sucked in emotionally.
Click here to order the 32 Building Blocks To Happiness Now Stop Draining Away Your Happiness And Life Will Look And Feel Completely Different Once you understand and stop making these mistakes that 99.9% of the population never realise they're doing… it will transform your life. You’ll feel lighter, happier and more vibrant. You’ll notice your relationships - with everyone, from your Partner, to your family, friends and work colleagues - becoming more satisfying and rewarding. The people in your life will enjoy being around you more. And then you’ll notice that the world will seem to treat you better. Once you stop pouring your energy and happiness down the drain… you’ll notice how much more possible power and influence you really do have. But doesn’t everyone promise you the world? Haven’t you been promised the world before and disappointed? What makes this different? It's because every other book… program and tool – as far as I can see – offers you only their way. I’m not selling you on my path. I don’t have a way. I have hundreds of ways I have observed people turn their life around. I’ve seen ways that work for some and completely different paths that work for others. Doesn’t it make sense that with many possible paths you’ll have more success than following a one trick pony? And now for the first time these 32 Building Blocks
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Thanks Rob - I wanted to let you know that I have
not finished your book - contrary to the norm I am not rushing to
finish it. I want to savor it and to reinforce the themes that
are helping me increase the amount of happiness I am perceiving. There are so many nuggets in your book. Many of
which I have heard before but for some reason they are sinking in
better this time. I think it may have to do with the way you write. On the negative side, I have fantasized for years
about writing a self-help book - at present it is just pages of
disconnected notes, quotes and many acronyms. Reading your book
has me realize that just writing a book is not very valuable. I need
to be able to communicate messages in a way that entices Doug Calder
Now if I’ve explained this clearly enough, you’re
probably wondering how much it’s going to cost and will it live up to my
promise.
So how much is the package?
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I truly believe that this information will be life changing for you. This isn't the usual regurgitated self help stuff that gets repeated in book after book. It's powerful information that will expand and broaden the way you look at everything in your life forever. But of course I'm biased. So I'm happy to let you test drive the information in your life. If you aren't a bare minimum 15% happier within 6 weeks, I'll refund your money with no hard feelings. For just $19.95 you’ll learn the mistakes that make you miserable and how to overcome them. You have nothing to lose, but you may gain a lot more happiness and meaning in your life. Click here to order the 32 Building Blocks To Happiness Now
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P.S. I heard a joke once. A devout Christian was on a sinking boat praying to God to save him. An hour later a large fishing boat came by and asked if he wanted to come on board. 'No', he said. 'My Lord will save me'. Two hours later another boat passed and tried to help. But the Man said 'God will save me'. Three hours later a helicopter flew by and offered him help. Again the Man refused. 'God will not let me down'. The Man died. When he went through the Pearly Gates he said 'My Lord. Why didn't you save me'. God said 'I did. I sent you two boats and a helicopter. But you've got to work with me'. Have you arrived on this page for a reason? P.P.S. Don't wait for your self-esteem... your passion for life... and your happiness to go downhill before you act. I've seen it happen hundreds of times... People wasting months or years of their lives... struggling when the answer was just before their very eyes. Click here to order the 32 Building Blocks To Happiness Now
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