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...to have a dream-come-true relationship. Maybe you're dating or maybe you've been married for years, either way... ...there's just one thing you need to know and it's not anything anyone has told you before. Read on to learn more... |
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Hi, My name is Kara Oh. I've been studying men for many years and I have something to share with you that will allow you to finally have the fantasy relationship you deserve. It's not your fault that it has eluded you. Simply put, no one knew the things I'm going to tell you. Not your mother, not your sisters, not your girlfriends, not any magazine or book.
I was able to discover the hidden truths about men because I spent 2 years interviewing men in a search to discover what excites them and makes them happy. This simply means that I was able to come at the problem from a different perspective. Plus, I developed a special communication technique that causes men to open their hearts and reveal things they normally keep hidden away. You can learn this same technique and discover how sweet it is when he opens up and tells you things he's never told anyone before.
Understanding Men
Is Like Putting a Puzzle Together
Sure, your mother, your sisters and girlfriends, even the books and magazines have some of the pieces to the puzzle, but some of the most important pieces have been missing. When I was researching my book, men started telling me things that I realized women were not talking about, things women did not understood. And I knew they were exactly the things that would turn any relationship around.
The hundreds of men I interviewed didn't lay it all out for me, making it clear what had to happen for women to create the kind of relationships they dreamed of. Instead, I had to take diverse bits of information gathered from books, articles, studies, and the men I interviewed, and organize them in such a way that a kind of clarity emerged...like a mystery being solved once those final clues are uncovered.
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#1
Men Are Driven To Make Women Happy
They can't help it, it's in their DNA. The more a man cares for you, or in the beginning, is interested in you, the more driven he becomes. He wants to take care of you, protect you, be your hero. You know how little boys will do stupid things, like jumping off of a table, to impress a girl? He needs to impress you. When you show him you are impressed, he wants to do even more for you. If you're impressed enough, you make him feel like Superman, and that's when he falls in love with you and wants you to meet his mother. Fortunately, when they're older, they no longer jump off of tables, they actually try to find out what we want.
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#2
Men Need To Feel Understood
and Accepted For Who They Are
Of course, we all want that. But because women are well known for trying to change men, men go into a relationship on guard. Their experience has mostly been that a woman is nice in the beginning, then she starts trying to change the man once he gets comfortable.
If you want a man to love you like you've never been loved before, he needs to feel accepted for who he is and appreciated for what he has to offer you. When you learn how to give that to him, you will become a treasure to him, someone he would never, ever want to lose...it's that important to him.
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#3
You Are His Only Source of Intimacy
Since he was a little boy, he's been taught to ignore his feelings. "Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, get back out there, don't cry, be a man, don't be a sissy..." So not only does he not feel his emotions, he's buried them so deep he's mostly unaware that he even has them. But we all know how unhealthy it is to suppress and stuff down our emotions. You are going to learn how to open him up so he can begin to feel safe enough to express what's really going on in his heart. You will become extremely important to him and because he'll start opening up, you will get more of the heart connecting intimacy you crave. You both win.
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| Dear Kara, I've been reading your book and I had to write to you. My marriage was stale and we hardly even spoke, and sex? Every six months if I was lucky. And he sat around the house like a lump, never helping, not even paying attention to the kids. I felt more alone than if I was living alone. I was seriously considering divorce when I heard you on the radio, inspiring me to purchase your e-book. I'm so grateful. Thank you. I can truly say that you saved my marriage and in a way, my life. I say that because your book taught me how to love myself in a way that I'd never even considered. You taught me how to go deep inside myself and discover those beautiful parts of me that I'd forgotten about. When I began using your secrets on my husband, our relationship started being fun again. We began to have dates and make love a lot more often. It didn't happen overnight but the process has been fun and the benefits have been awesome. It's cute how he's responded to the "new me." Thank you Kara, from the bottom of my heart. I've recommended your e-book to all my closest women friends, my two sisters and a single aunt. They love it and we feel like we have a kind of secret sisterhood. I treasure that more than I can describe.
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To a Man Failure Is Death
This may seem pretty extreme to you, but every man I've asked says this is absolutely the truth. You might be wondering what this has to do with you creating a fantasy-come-true relationship. Well, if he's driven to make you happy, then what goes on when you are happy? He feels successful, even if he had nothing to do with why you are happy. When you are the cause of him feeling successful, his heart wells up with love. If you give him opportunities to be your hero, he gets to be successful. Again, you win because his love for you grows stronger. When you understand this piece of the puzzle you will be able to give him the understanding he craves so much from you. He will cherish you for giving this to him.
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Men Hate To Have To Guess What You Want
The simple reason has to do with the fact that they hate to get it wrong. That makes them feel like they've failed you, which makes them feel like they've made you unhappy, makes them feel foolish, which makes them withdraw from you. Plus, let's face it, they don't like getting into trouble. If he's walking on egg shells, he's not going to be able to focus on you and open up the way you want.
There are many more pieces to this puzzle and when you have them all, you will have an "ah, ha" moment that will allow you to see men like never before. You will finally be able to know exactly what to do to achieve that fantasy relationship you want.
THANK
YOU KARA!!!!! |
| The Title Is Deceiving When I first read this book, I thought it would be just another fluff book. But the depth of wisdom and wealth of information is beyond any of my expectations. I like the book so much that I've had Kara on my radio show several times. She really has a lot to offer. Any woman who has to interact with men, in any capacity, needs this book. Danielle Lin, Nationally syndicated radio host, "A Word on Health" |
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When a man treasures a woman she feels like her fantasy has come true. Indeed, I can tell you from personal experience that it's even better than the fantasy. You see, I was married for 29 years. We had a good marriage by most standards but my heart ached for more love, romance, and passion. We were good friends, could talk about most anything, and he was a good provider so it never occurred to me to leave. But he did something that I could not accept (you can guess what he did and probably be right) so I divorced him. Once I got over the pain of the divorce I decided I was not going to settle for anything less than my fantasy. So I stepped onto a path that led me to study men.
It started when I asked men what they needed in order to give a woman her fantasy relationship. I told them what my fantasy relationship looked like and that I thought it matched pretty well with most women's fantasy. Here's what I told them I wanted. It might not match your list perfectly but I suspect we share many of the same desires:
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I wanted to be cherished and adored.
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I wanted to feel his strength and masculinity.
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I wanted a great lover who loves to please me.
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I wanted to feel respected.
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I wanted to be gathered up in his strong arms.
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I wanted him to tell me what he's feeling.
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I wanted him to feel like I'm the best thing in his life.
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I wanted him to love me with all his heart.
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Men Were Astonished
The most remarkable thing happened whenever I shared my list with them. More often than not, they looked at me with astonishment and said that that was exactly what they wanted to give to a woman. Then we shared our thoughts about why most men and women were not getting what they ached to have. And it is an ache, a kind of emptiness that we carry around with us. I was happy in so many other areas of my life, but that ache caused an emptiness that I knew only a man could fill.
In those hundreds of discussions, those wonderful men taught me what I needed to know in order to manifest a relationship that gave me everything on that list. That is how I discovered the missing pieces to the puzzle that I now get to share with you.
Because of what I learned when I researched my book, I was able to apply my knowledge of men to now enjoy being treasured by someone who makes me feel so loved, so safe, so gathered up, that I find myself crying just because it feels so good when he holds me. I want that for you and that is why I am making available to you what I learned.
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I put all the puzzle pieces into a book for you. The title, Men Made Easy, came to me in a dream. It's a fun title but it's the truth, they really are easy and they want to give us what we want. But without the puzzle pieces we keep hoping and wishing but nothing ever changes. Have you noticed that?
I want you to understand that you are not just getting a bag of puzzle pieces that you then need to assemble. That would only frustrate you. I told you earlier that this is something new and different, that it will allow you to finally achieve your fantasy relationship. One reason is that I have found some significant missing pieces. The other reason is because I show you how to fit the pieces together. Without that, you just have a lot of interesting information, but nothing that will cause real and lasting changes to occur.
Remember that I told you that there is just one thing you need to know to create your fantasy relationship? Well, when you learn what it takes to make him feel proud to be your man you will be able to give him exactly what will cause him to want to give you everything that is on your list. That's all you need to learn to do and it's an ongoing, ever evolving process that is filled with the potential to have a relationship that is truly better than your best fantasy.
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| Every woman should read this book! As each of the 12 secrets are revealed, you will experience a better understanding of the man in your life. I love this book because it's real and packed with truth. Kara's unique storytelling style will captivate your attention. Larry James - CelebrateLove.com |
You Deserve To Be Happy
For many years I taught self-improvement, self-discovery workshops to women. As they opened up and shared so much of themselves with me I literally fell in love with women. Because I love women so much my heart feels that ache inside of you. We all have it. And now that I know what it feels like to be treasured by a man, to be cherished and adored, and to be held so tight that I feel like he's going to break me, I have no greater desire than for you to have the love you want.
Whether you are married or single, the greatest possibility of success is to understand men. You must understand what inspires them to fall in love, to stay in love, to want to make you happy, to want to go out and slay dragons for you. If you are dating, it may not seem that obvious that this book is for you, but trust me, without the puzzle pieces and without knowing how to put the pieces together, you will continue to be frustrated.
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This Is Not "cute" or "quick-fix" Advice
I could offer quick-fix, cute tips, but that won't give you the kind of relationship I'm talking about. If that's what you're looking for, don't even consider getting my book. It's much deeper than the cute advice books. What you will discover is life altering. You will never again look at men or at relationships the same way. That's because you will have a new vision of what's possible and a new sense of empowerment that you can actually have what you want.
With the book you get a companion workbook. The workbook will help you speed up the process of either changing the man you're with, or if you're dating, of learning how to cause men to notice you like never before. When you show a man that you really do understand him, he will notice, trust me.
If you're married he'll start looking at you with a sense of awe and curiosity...and a bit of excitement. If you're single and dating, you won't have to wonder if he's interested. He'll let you know loud and clear. Bottom line, you're going to have fun "playing" with this wealth of information.
My Guarantee To You!
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With much love,
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About Kara Oh
Kara is the best-selling author of Men Made Easy. She's a seminar leader, motivational speaker, radio and TV personality, mother of two fantastic grown children, and grandmother of a magical 11 year old grandson. At 58, she's enjoying the best relationship, by leaps and bounds, of her life.
Kara Oh has been on hundreds of radio and TV shows across the country, and visited bookstores in every major city discussing her best-selling book. She is regularly featured in magazines like Cosmopolitan and Women's World. She is an enlightening and entertaining public speaker and has traveled to all the major US cities sharing her insights about what makes men tick and how to create amazing relationships.
"The purpose of intimate partnership is for us to midwife the perfection in
each other. The point of love is to reveal to us the light inside."
-- From "Illuminata" by Marianne Williamson
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