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The 21 Basic Laws Of All Successful
Relationships
"Discover
The Surprising Truths About Love
That Will Save Your Relationship"

Even A
Wonderful Relationship Can Have
Difficulties If You Don't Know
The Basic Laws Of Love
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Are you in
a relationship where you just can't get the love
and support you deserve?
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Are you
with someone who expects you to read their mind?
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Are you
receiving mixed messages from your partner?
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Do your
relationships start beautifully and then fall apart?
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Can you
trust each other?
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Are you
haunted by ghosts of past relationships?
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Are you
addicted to fighting?
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Can you
feel good about yourself, no matter what's going on?
If you give me 5 minutes and set
everything else aside, I promise that a wonderful discovery awaits you
today.
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"A
powerful, potentially life-changing work."
2005,
Review, Body and Soul Magazine
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New York, N.Y.
Dear Friend,
Of course you want to experience a wonderful, loving relationship where
you can share your life with someone meaningful to you. Of course you want
to be understood and valued, to feel there's someone there for you.
These wishes are normal. Beyond that, they are healthy. So, why is it that
so many these days have become discouraged, feeling that their love lives
just cannot work out? Why is loneliness one of the biggest problems in our
country, whether people are together or not?
And, most importantly, even though there's so much material
available about relationships, why is it so hard to find true guidance
that really makes a difference in your life?
This is where I can help you. For over 30 years I've been working here in
New York as a Ph.D psychologist and psychotherapist.
I've written many critically acclaimed
books, which have been published widely and translated into 13 languages.
Some you've probably heard of including: Zen And The Art Of Falling In
Love (Simon and Schuster), Why Men Leave (Putnam) What He
Can't Tell You, And Needs To Say (Putnam).
As a columnist, I have also been published
is many leading magazines including Cosmopolitan, Ladies Home Journal,
Better Living, Body and Soul, Chicago Tribune, In Touch and First For Woman,
just to name a few.
In addition, I'm the resident
relationship expert at i.village.com, a professor
at Barnes & Noble University Online, and I've offered over 500 talks and
workshops to hospitals, universities and fortune 500 companies on building
successful relationships.
All of my work has been for
the purpose of helping people like yourself find the love, support and
well-being they desire.
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"Dr.
Shoshanna's words are wonderful."
- Marianne
Williamson, #1 Best Selling author of A Return to Love
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Some
Other Books Dr. Shoshanna Has Written Include: |
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What
He Can't Tell You,
And Needs To Say
(Putnam Perigee) |
Why
Men Leave
(Putnam Perigee) |
Zen
And The Art
Of Falling In Love
(Simon & Schuster) |
" . . . readers
searching for broader meaning will revel in her ability to weave together
the basic tenets of relationship psychology with the self-realization
techniques of Zen practice. . . "

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Publisher's Weekly about Zen and the Art of Falling in Love
"The
Basic Laws Of Love"
Based
upon years of providing therapy to both individuals and couples I've
realized how much hurt and disappointment comes from unfulfilled hopes,
misunderstandings and lack of real communication. I've also realized that
all of this is all easy to fix. All that is needed is to understand and
apply the basic laws of love. These laws are unfailing and create a solid
foundation for every relationship.
See if this sounds familiar - Kara's relationships started out wonderfully.
At first she felt she'd found the perfect person and that this time it would
be just right. After awhile, however, she began finding fault with her
partner, and, he began withdrawing from her. Kara came for counseling
feeling as though her relationship would never work out. She thought
something was wrong with her, that she just wasn't loveable.
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Even
if you do not wish to go further at this moment, we would like to
offer you a free subscription to Dr. Shoshanna's monthly ezine.
This
ezine is dedicated to creating healthy and uplifting
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tools, it provides keys to unlocking relationship problems, and
making your life and relationships all they can be.
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However, after working with
the principles in Dr. Shoshanna's Unique Program on Love and Relationships,
this is what Kara said:
"I am so
grateful I embarked on your program. It is a great journey with amazing new
lessons to learn. You bring light to people and give hope for a new
life."
- Kara, Reader, Los
Angeles CA
This Program Can Work For You
Too. Based on tremendous demand and need,
Dr. Shoshanna has finally compiled her years of working as a therapist,
speaker, relationship expert and workshop leader into a unique program.
In Dr. Shoshanna's ultimate relationship guide you will find answers to
common relationship problems. There will be instruction, exercises and
wisdom never brought together in one program.
SAVE YOUR
RELATIONSHIP
21 Basic Laws of Successful Relationships
The e-book is filled with
techniques, examples, discussion, and step by step guidance. You will
learn how to overcome the most difficult relationship problems, and create
the relationships you've always dreamed of. This simple, direct and
effective program has worked for hundreds: It can work for you too. Don't
just take my word for it - check out these real-life responses:
TESTIMONIALS
"I just wanted to
tell you Thank You! I find that having your book as my new companion has
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to live in confusion, and which such relationship problems. I can only hope
that more will be introduced to your work so that true love can
prevail."
- Heidi, NYC
"Your work on love
has literally changed my life. My marriage was falling apart, and I couldn't
find good marriage help, until I found you. Thank you."
- Elizabeth, NJ
"Your work has
helped me move beyond a broken heart. I was experiencing some very difficult
relationship problems. I never thought I'd feel this way again. Bless
you."
- Keith T., MA
"I was truly
enlightened as I read Dr. Shoshanna's new book. You discover answers that
you have buried away. Your new understanding allows you to beautifully apply
this knowledge in your life.
Thank you."
- Dr. Winn Henderson, MD
"I have to say
that your book has changed my life. It’s absolutely amazing. Your book is
opening the doors I never knew were available to open. Thank you sooooo much
from the bottom of my heart."
- Trina, CA
"I needed marriage
help. Only once before in my life have I ever cried when I finished a book.
Your book has touched my soul and changed my life and how I am interacting
with myself and my partner. I want to thank you for your invaluable words
and sense of peace I have now that I have finished your extraordinary
book."
- Alexis, NJ
"Rarely do
eloquent prose, gems of quotes, simple wisdom and practical exercises come
in one book. Dr Shoshanna's book offers all these and more. This is a book
you will refer to for
years to come."
- Lee Jampolsky, Ph.D.,
author of Healing Together,
Healing the Addictive Mind, and The Art of Trust
"I desperately
needed marriage help. My relationship problems were increasing regularly.
All I could think about was how to establish a healthy relationship. I
couldn't do it, until I found your work. God Bless You!"
- Aron Luke, New York,
NY
"You
Have The Power To Create
Healthy Relationships"
Whatever
problems you are grappling with,
I promise your situation is not hopeless.
There's a reason why problems
keep repeating. It's not because you're not good enough or loveable. It's
because you do not understand the basic laws of love that build a solid
foundation in relationships and keep your relationship going strong.
For example, so many people tell me, "I've been betrayed by love. I'm
having terrible relationship problems." Things didn't work out as they
were hoping and naturally they felt they'd been betrayed. And they were. .
.But they weren't betrayed by their partners, but by the lies they'd
believed about love.
Most of us keep fighting the same relationship battles, having things work
out the same, old way. It's not because we don't know better. It's because
we believe lies about love. These lies trip us up and ruin our
relationships. We live our love lives on automatic. Isn't it time we stopped
and woke up?
"When
you start to work with the unique program in this book, this is some what
you will find"
Here Are 5 Crucial And
Proven Principles To
Building Healthy Relationships You
May Not Have Heard Of. . .
1. It's the Correct Practice
Of Love That Creates
A Healthy Relationship
Having healthy relationships is a practice.
Overcome relationship problems does not happen by wishing and hoping. You must
take action. In this self help ebook, I teach you the specific steps you can
take day by day to achieve healthy relationships.
These steps clear up misunderstandings, show you how to value yourself and
others, to communicate easily and know who you really are. They guide your
thoughts and actions, and lead you in the right way. As you follow these
steps you will find -
2. You Must Stop Feeding Your Upset.
You have the capacity and power to choose your focus.
The Laws of Healthy Relationships show you how to steer clear of upset.
You will discover how not to get pulled into games or lies in your
relationship, and how not to waste time with fantasies that never become
real. You will learn how to handle rough, and upsetting situations as
they arise, on the spot.
3. How To Reject Rejection
Rejection is more about
your partner, than you.
Learn why, when your partner
rejects you, the pain you feel is created by your own feelings of self
rejection. We blame ourselves or feel we're unworthy when we are unfairly
treated or rejected by our partner. When you learn to look at this type of
experience with different eyes, you'll realize that the way your partner
behaves tells you more about them than about you. This program will
show you step by step how to not take your partners rejections personally,
or to mean something it does not.
4. How To Stay Positive, No Matter What's Going On
Among the many possible ways
to respond to your partner in times of trouble, you must navigate and
choose the right responses.
No matter what's happening,
you can learn how to make a positive, healthy, response. You don't have to
give way to negativity or waste your time wondering where the love went.
Each of us has the power to choose love, and to choose how we want to
behave.
5. How To Respect Yourself And Your Partner
Your independent
well-being is a must, for a healthy relationship with another.
Discover what is appropriate
for you, and how to set boundaries. When you understand your needs, and the
purpose of your relationships and how they serve your life, self-respect and
respect for your partner develops naturally. You no longer feel confused
about what is appropriate. In my program I will show you how to set
boundaries and ask for what you deserve. You will also learn how to improve
your current relationship, or whether or not you are in the right
relationship at all. And finally, how to find a new relationship, or work on
your current relationship, to best fulfill your independent needs.
Vitamins And Minerals For The
Heart And Mind
I have just shared with you only a few of the laws that exist in Save
Your Relationship. These laws of healthy relationships are like
vitamins and minerals for the heart and mind. Once you take them and digest
them, your life and relationships become vigorous and strong.
However, when we don't know and practice the laws of love even a
relationship that starts out wonderfully can start to go wrong.
Keep reading and I'll show you
some why many relationships go awry.
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The
8 Common Mistakes
People Make In Relationships
Here Are Some
Common Mistakes We Make That Ruin Our Relationships. Have you
made any of these mistakes?
Mistake
#1
Trying To Change Your Partner.
"If they love me enough, they'll change to please me." So
many believe that they can and will change their partner. It's only a
matter of time. They say, "If he loves me enough, he'll
change that small thing to please me."
But to your partner, that "small thing" isn't so small. Even
if they do try to change to please you, very often they become
resentful. "You don't love me for myself, but for the person you
want me to be," they say. And it's true. When you try to change
them they feel you don't really love them. You just want to turn them
into someone to fill your needs.
Mistake #2
Feeling
Like You're A Failure In Love.
When some people see that things aren't working they become depressed.
They start to feel as though they're not loveable, that destiny is
against them or that they will always be a failure in love.
The truth is that it's impossible to fail at love. You're not
a failure, you're just confused. Once you learn and practice the
simple laws of love, you'll be able to handle whatever happens.
Relationships will become an adventure. You will finally grow to
understand that your partner is your teacher in love.
Mistake #3
Believing
You Have To Be "Good Enough" To Keep Their Love.
Many feel they're not "good enough". They feel they have to
turn into a pretzel to keep someone's love.
Recently a woman came to me and said, "I finally found a
wonderful man but I'm miserable in the relationship. Everyday I worry
that he'll find out who I really am and leave."
This woman not only expected rejection, she actually did little things
to bring it about. Soon she began to sabotage the relationship,
finding fault with him at every turn. Although she didn't realize it,
she did this to feel better about herself. The truth is we can
never earn another person's love. The more we try the worse we feel.
We must simply understand that who we truly are is entirely loveable.
We must learn to make friends with ourselves.
Mistake #4
Rejecting
Your Partner So They Can't Do It First.
Many reject their
partners as protection against being rejected themselves. The bottom
line is these individuals may not feel they deserve a relationship,
they feel they can't hold onto a partner because they haven't accepted
themselves.
The exercises in Save
Your Relationship
teach you how to make friends with yourself, to feel safe and secure
in your relationship and to feel completely worthy of love.
Mistake #5
Believing
Your Partner Should Read Your Mind And Know What You Want Without Your
Saying A Word.
"If he/she really loved me, they'd know what I needed and give it
to me."
Many believe that if their partners really loved them, they would read
their minds. It wouldn't be necessary to have to actually ask for what
they wanted.
This is one of the most serious mistakes people make in relationships.
Without truthful, open, communication no relationship can
flourish.
Not only is it necessary to know what you want, and to ask for it
clearly (without producing guilt) - it is also necessary to be able to
accept both yes and no.
Mistake #6
Believing
It's Your Partner's Job To Make You Happy.
Your partner is not there to meet all your needs. If he/she says no,
it doesn't mean he/she doesn't love you. Some demands may be
impossible to fulfill. It is not your partner's job to make you happy.
Your partner is here to teach you how to grow and share.
You must learn to make yourself happy, and make others happy as well.
Love is based upon communicating, consideration and giving.
Mistake #7
Believing
It's Hard To Get Him/Her To Talk.
"No matter what I do I can't get him to talk"
Women claim they can't get men to talk. When time comes for intimate
conversation guys clam up, offer a few grunts and expect women to
magically understand what's going on.
Women feel shut out and men feel misunderstood. However, there is
something women don't realize. Men want to talk. Under the right
conditions, they'll talk all night long. Men desperately want to let
others know what's going on. However, something else many don't
realize is, men are more fragile than women. In order for them to
talk, things have to be right.
All that's needed here is to learn how to create the right conditions,
what is necessary for a man to feel safe enough with you to talk.
Mistake #8
Being
Addicted To Fighting.
Many couples keep relationships alive and exciting by fighting. When
they see their partner upset, it reassures them that they care. Others
have seen their parents fighting and this is the only role model they
have. Some are addicted to the "high" they get out of
fighting. A few crave the feeling of domination or control.
Domination is not love. If it hurts it is abuse, not love. The
exercises in Save
Your Relationship
will show you other ways to solve problems, get the love you need and
express feelings constructively.
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Save Your Relationship not only includes
crucial information but also has enjoyable exercises for you to practice day
by day.
Step By Step Lessons:
The exercises in the book are called Love Steps. They show you how to
approach different rough spots, solve problems and how to build your
relationship day by day.
A Love Test is also included:
This allows you to quickly see just where you make mistakes in relationships
and how to turn them around.
Save Your Relationship is filled with so
much simple wisdom, techniques and support, you'll wonder how you managed
without it before.
"Here
Are Some Topics You Will Explore"
How To Reject Rejection
The Biggest Fear In Relationships
The Difference Between Real and Counterfeit Love
Where Love Is Hiding
The Power of Forgiveness
Real Communication - What Is It?
How To Clear Up Misunderstandings
How To Break The Addiction To Fighting
How To Stop Holding On Too Tight
How To Welcome Growth and Change
Relationship Weeds, And How To Pull Them
Getting Him To Talk
Different Ways Men Express Their Love
The Secrets of Non-Verbal Communication
How To Balance Your Relationship
How To Renew Your Love For Each Other
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.plus a lot more, including an additional chapter called Touchstones
To Love, which provides powerful techniques to carry with you and
use any moment, so you can clear up any relationship problems on the spot.
Can You Really Afford To Be Without This? You may be thinking, will it
work for me? Will it really help? Of course it will. It's worked for
hundreds of others. Why not you? Say
you don't buy the book and just go on as you've been going? Then what? Same
old, same old.
"So,
What Does This Unique Program Sell For?" Let's do a quick
comparison -
The
cost of mental and emotional health is typically expensive:
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What
is the cost of going to a professional therapists?
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What
is the cost of seminars, and buying relationship tapes?
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What
is the cost of buying more and more books that are likely to simply sit
on your bookshelves gathering dust?
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What
is the cost to your life of days spent feeling upset, or alone?
I'm
sure your total is up in the hundreds of dollars, maybe even thousands, but
I found a way to provide you with the greater value at a fraction of the
price.
Save Your Relationship is available to
you as a downloadable manual (or ebook) directly accessible from the
Internet.
As I have no inventory or fulfillment costs, and do not need to pay anyone
to take orders over the phone, I pass along my cost savings to you.
Downloading Save Your Relationship is
simple. I'm no techno whiz and I had no problem. It works perfectly with
both MAC or PC computers.
Because you will be downloading everything online, I'm not going to charge
you anywhere near the amount you'd pay for any of the alternatives listed
above. Your total investment in the entire program would be only $29.00
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new, powerful ideas and steps to take that as soon as you start reading, in
10 minutes you will begin to know just what to do to make your relationship
right. The process takes place naturally. Just follow the easy steps and see
what happens in your life.
You can start at the beginning or at any place at all that feels right to
you. Absorb the new ideas. Read the stories of what happened to others. Do
some exercises and then do some more. Believe me, you 'll be amazed to see
how simple this all can be.
Before you know it, you won't be worrying about what's going on. You'll know
just what to do to start making things right.
Warmest Regards,
Brenda Shoshanna
Dr. Brenda Shoshanna
P.S. Once you undertake this program, you are not alone. I am here to help
you. You may contact me for further information at topspeaker@yahoo.com
If
you want even more personal help, I'm available for counseling and
consulting. Call (212) 288-0028 for further information.
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